Friendship is one of the hardest things in the world to explain, especially if you haven’t learned it at school.
So it is no surprise why friends change at different stages of life, but there is one fact that cannot be denied: True friendships are hard to find and maintain. Normally we have only a handful of people (if we are lucky) who we can proudly call our best friends.
So who is your soul mate, your best friend, colleagues – workers, acquaintances or even your own family members?
They will never judge you or make you feel bad about your actions or words, and they understand you even better than you. It is the people you can always be happy with, who are always by your side and who can always be with you. It is good, but very often we feel that because of these people we are able to do the things we do with someone who is not so close to us.
Here are seven of them, seven things only your best friends would do for you.
You can tell your best friend what you think and they will have no problem with you telling them the truth because they know that if you are honest with them you will never feel hurt or offended.
Although this reality can be painful, your soulmate sometimes realizes that you need to be 100% honest with them because they love you.
Whenever you go to a place, you feel at home and expect to be treated equally, even if you are not the only one in the room.
You feel comfortable when you step into a friend’s seat as if it were your own, even if you are the only one in the room with him.
You know your parents and siblings very well, and they know you, but you are more like a family member to them than a friend. The ability to share one’s secrets and trust that one will never share them with others is what true friendships, which could last forever. You know yourself as your true self, even if you don’t always know it like other people do.
The definition of a friend is someone who adores you and still loves you, someone you adore because he knows the things you are most ashamed of, and yourself could not say it better.
A good friend is a person who loves you for who you are, no matter how you feel about yourself. He sees the ugly, bad parts of your character and never thinks about leaving you, and you never think about leaving him.
Good friends are honest and willing to help you with serious problems, and that is so rare these days. If you could actually prove whether a person is one or not, you could call them in the middle of the night and ask for help.
Giving someone their special name or nickname shows that you think that person is extremely close to you. Just because a nickname is not nice does not mean that you don’t like it, quite the contrary. It is also the one that gets boring when you listen to their daily drama and answer the question: “Do I think I should call them that”?
There are many other things that only your best friends would do for you, but these are undoubtedly the most important. You are truly blessed when you have good friends who do these things and you do everything you can to maintain your friendship. There’s a good chance they’ll take your nickname as an innocent joke and not offend you. The person knows that there is nothing more important to them than the fact that they are being done for them.