Don’t Take Rejection Personally: It Can Be A Blessing In Disguise To Start Searching For Someone Better
If someone says that you are not the right person for him and he wants to continue his life without you, there is not much you can do about it. You can try throwing your phone at them and certainly start crying and screaming, but you should respect their decision.
Breathe deeply, show that you understand their decision and then move on is the most important thing you can do. The fact that someone has had a change of heart to peacefully accept is one of the best and most important things you can do for yourself, and you do yourself a favor when you leave.
Accepting things that you wish were not true is one of the most difficult challenges, but it is better to accept them sooner rather than later. Otherwise, you will waste your time and energy, and nothing good can come of false hope. False hope has rotten roots and can harm you, your family, yourself and others around you.
The rejection or approval of another person does not determine their whole life, but you will learn about yourself and your values and put yourself first.
You will find someone who will love you and you will feel in your gut that they are right for you. As humans, we all have a way of feeling things, but you’re a special cookie, you’re going to find them.
When you are in a relationship, the feelings should be mutual, but if you are not the right thing for each other, then stop idealizing the relationship you have with that person. Of course, relationships are not perfect, and even if they are, you can always come to terms with the person in your own way, not in the wrong way.
It may take months or years, but if someone decides to be honest with you and release you, do not take this as an opportunity to get there and slam the door on the past and seal it. Perhaps you cannot find love by looking for it, and it is better to look for a person who is satisfied with what you have alone. Holding grudges helps no one, because everyone is just trying to find happiness for themselves.
So don’t take rejection personally, and if someone or something rejects you because you are who you are, that’s not what you need in this time.
And if you forget that point, you will be in a lot of pain for the rest of your life, not just in the short term.
For now, encourage and use what you already have in front of you, and encourage whatever you have. If it feels right to you and the right person appears, if you least expect it, then go for it.