If She Is Not Your First Choice, Please, Stop Wasting Her Time

If it is not your first choice, please do not waste time, go further and ask her about your life, your wishes, your needs and your deepest desires. Never take it for granted, never treat it as a number, and never treat your number as a number. I think you are deeply interested in her because you think it is worth trying hard to get her in your pants.

Don’t let them believe you are madly in love with them, don’t let them talk about your weaknesses, don’t let them share your secrets with you.

Don’t make fun of her because she’s just a hot girl, even though she told you she wanted to share her life with you. Don’t try to convince them that you’re in good hands because you know damn well that it’s not them and you’re not.

If you are not prepared to accept it, do not pretend that your intentions are pure. Don’t get involved with her because she just wants to have fun with you and if she doesn’t, it’s not worth it.

If she is not your first choice, do not stop chasing your own dreams, and if she is not ready to love you with every fiber of your being, play with her for a while.

Don’t pretend to be jealous of them just to fill a gap in their aimless lives, and don’t lie if you are jealous. She’s the only one you’ll ever need in your life (I’m not kidding) and you won’t lie to her.

If she is not serious, do not expect her to take you seriously, but if she is, consider her your true love, not a game. She deserves better and she deserves to be seen as a true lover, not a “game.”

If she’s not special to you, then she’s the kind of woman who would do anything to make her other half happy. She believes in deep attachment and expects you to do things for her, even if you are not ready to love her with the same intensity.

Stop giving her little glimmers of hope, only to disappoint her in the end, and spare her the heartache of love and move on. Be a true man, stop fighting for peace and stop pretending to be by her side in her time of need. Stop manipulating them; stop giving them up with every glimmer of hope, because they will only disappoint you in the end.

Leave them alone until it is too late, do not make them cry, walk away and leave them alone, even if that means you have to fight for them.

You will never understand them, you will never give them the love they deserve, and you will always have to do everything for them.